How Do We Define “Family”?
Melissa* is a 35-year-old single woman living alone in her condo in the city. Her biological family consists of only her father who lives in another state. Melissa is an only child, and her mother died several years ago. Before the pandemic, she had a vibrant social life with her neighbors, coworkers, and friends. She regularly hosted dinner parties and relatives visiting from out of town. Since the pandemic, she reports feeling isolated and lonely. Despite having a solid social network, she hasn’t found anyone to bubble with. Many of her married friends have created COVID bubbles with their spouses and kids. Her single friends have left the city to stay with siblings or parents. If you’ve ever taken a psychology class, you’re familiar with Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs. It’s a motivational theory comprised of a five-tiered model of human needs. Right in the middle of it is the need to feel a sense of belonging. One way that people do this is by being part of a family. Quarterlifer...